I cannot connect TCIP, need suggestions

[Zemke]

Hey everyone, I am trying to connect to people for a TCIP game of CM. The only way I have been able to is bypassing my router and connecting direct to my computer, which is fine unless other family members are are the computer, mainly the wife, and then I get lots of "flak", and mostly of the 37mm and 85mm heavy stuff....lol. I have made sure the router ports are open any other suggestions out there.